Anniversary gifts by year follow a long-standing list of themes, starting with paper for the 1st anniversary and building to silver at 25, gold at 50 and diamond at 60. Many years also have a modern alternative, such as clocks for the 1st or diamond jewelry for the 10th. The chart below covers every year from 1 to 60 using Hallmark's published gift list, followed by the jewelry and gemstone list and a guide to choosing an anniversary ring.
Anniversary Gifts by Year Chart (1st to 60th)
Each year from 1 to 30, plus every fifth milestone, has a traditional and a modern gift, while the in-between years from 31 to 59 have a single theme.
Years 1 to 30 and the milestone years below come from Hallmark's individual anniversary pages. Hallmark's main list gives one theme for other years, shown as "Theme." Lists differ slightly between publishers, so you may see small variations elsewhere.
| Anniversary | Traditional gift | Modern gift |
|---|---|---|
| 1st | Paper | Clocks |
| 2nd | Cotton | China |
| 3rd | Leather | Crystal or glass |
| 4th | Fruit or flowers | Appliances |
| 5th | Wood | Silverware |
| 6th | Candy or iron | Wood |
| 7th | Wool or copper | Desk sets |
| 8th | Pottery or bronze | Linens or lace |
| 9th | Willow or pottery | Leather |
| 10th | Tin or aluminum | Diamond jewelry |
| 11th | Steel | Fashion jewelry |
| 12th | Silk or linen | Pearls |
| 13th | Lace | Textiles |
| 14th | Ivory (Hallmark substitutes gold jewelry) | Gold jewelry |
| 15th | Crystal | Watches |
| 16th | Wax | Silverware |
| 17th | Furniture | Furniture |
| 18th | Porcelain | Porcelain |
| 19th | Bronze | Bronze |
| 20th | China | Platinum |
| 21st | Brass | Nickel |
| 22nd | Copper | Copper |
| 23rd | Silver plate | Silver plate |
| 24th | Opal | Musical instruments |
| 25th | Silver | Silver |
| 26th | Jade | Artwork |
| 27th | Music | Music |
| 28th | Linens | Linens |
| 29th | Tools | Tools |
| 30th | Pearl | Diamond |
| 31st | Theme: Travel | |
| 32nd | Theme: Bronze | |
| 33rd | Theme: Iron | |
| 34th | Theme: Food | |
| 35th | Coral | Jade |
| 36th | Theme: Antiques | |
| 37th | Theme: Books | |
| 38th | Theme: Luck | |
| 39th | Theme: Laughter | |
| 40th | Ruby | Ruby |
| 41st | Theme: Office or desk decor | |
| 42nd | Theme: Clocks or watches | |
| 43rd | Theme: Entertainment | |
| 44th | Theme: Electronics | |
| 45th | Sapphire | Sapphire |
| 46th | Theme: Games | |
| 47th | Theme: Garden or plants | |
| 48th | Theme: Home improvement | |
| 49th | Theme: Copper | |
| 50th | Gold | Gold |
| 51st | Theme: Photos or cameras | |
| 52nd | Theme: Bath or spa | |
| 53rd | Theme: Plastic | |
| 54th | Theme: Glass | |
| 55th | Emerald | Emerald (Hallmark theme) |
| 56th | Theme: Day | |
| 57th | Theme: Night | |
| 58th | Theme: Faith and hope | |
| 59th | Theme: Charity | |
| 60th | Diamond | Diamond |
Notes on the chart
- 14th year: The traditional gift was ivory. Hallmark says it does not condone the ivory trade and lists gold jewelry instead.
- 55th year: Hallmark lists emerald as the theme, matching the traditional US list compiled in Wikipedia's wedding anniversary article.
- Beyond 60: The traditional US list continues with blue sapphire at 65, platinum at 70 and diamond and gold at 75, according to Wikipedia's compilation.
Milestone Anniversaries at a Glance
The most celebrated anniversaries are the 25th (silver), 40th (ruby), 50th (gold) and 60th (diamond).
| Milestone | Traditional | Modern | Common name |
|---|---|---|---|
| 25th | Silver | Silver | Silver jubilee |
| 30th | Pearl | Diamond | Pearl anniversary |
| 40th | Ruby | Ruby | Ruby anniversary |
| 50th | Gold | Gold | Golden jubilee |
| 60th | Diamond | Diamond | Diamond jubilee |
Brilliant Earth's anniversary guide refers to the 25th, 50th and 60th as the silver, golden and diamond jubilees, and the 70th as the platinum jubilee.
Anniversary Gemstones and Jewelry by Year
A separate jewelry list pairs each early anniversary with a gemstone or metal, from gold at year one to diamond at year ten.
This list, used widely by jewelers, is shown here as published in Brilliant Earth's anniversary gift guide. It covers years 1 to 10 and then the major milestones.
| Anniversary | Jewelry gift |
|---|---|
| 1st | Gold jewelry |
| 2nd | Garnet jewelry |
| 3rd | Pearl jewelry |
| 4th | Topaz jewelry |
| 5th | Sapphire jewelry |
| 6th | Amethyst jewelry |
| 7th | Onyx jewelry |
| 8th | Tourmaline jewelry |
| 9th | Lapis lazuli jewelry |
| 10th | Diamond jewelry |
| 15th | Ruby jewelry |
| 20th | Emerald jewelry |
| 25th | Silver jewelry |
| 30th | Pearl jewelry |
| 40th | Ruby jewelry |
| 50th | Gold jewelry |
| 60th | Diamond jewelry |
| 70th | Platinum jewelry |
Notice how the lists overlap: diamond appears as the modern 10th gift, the modern 30th gift and the 60th gift on both lists, which is why diamond and diamond-look rings are popular for those years.
Moissanite Anniversary Rings: Eternity Bands and Three-Stone Rings
Moissanite anniversary rings are a durable, lower-cost way to mark a diamond-themed year such as the 10th, 30th or 60th.
Moissanite rates 9.25 on the Mohs hardness scale, just below diamond at 10 and above ruby and sapphire at 9 according to GIA, so it suits a ring worn every day. Lab grown diamonds are another option for couples who want a diamond itself; GIA notes they share the crystal structure of natural diamonds.
Eternity bands
An eternity band sets a continuous row of stones around the band, and many couples read that unbroken circle as a symbol of lasting commitment. A half eternity band places stones across the top of the band only. Our eternity band guide explains the styles, and you can browse moissanite eternity bands to stack with an engagement ring.
Three-stone rings
Three-stone rings are often described as representing a couple's past, present and future, which makes them a popular anniversary upgrade. See our three-stone moissanite rings for designs with side stones in matching or contrasting shapes.
Shopping by milestone
- Browse all moissanite anniversary rings.
- For a diamond-themed 10th, see 10th anniversary jewelry gifts.
- For a silver 25th, see 25th anniversary jewelry gifts.
- For a diamond 60th, see 60th anniversary diamond jewelry.
If the ring is a surprise, borrow a ring your partner already wears on that finger and check it against our ring size chart, since fit can change over the years.
Frequently Asked Questions
What are the traditional anniversary gifts by year?
The traditional list starts with paper (1st), cotton (2nd), leather (3rd), fruit or flowers (4th) and wood (5th), then tin or aluminum for the 10th, crystal for the 15th and china for the 20th. Milestones are silver (25th), pearl (30th), coral (35th), ruby (40th), sapphire (45th), gold (50th), emerald (55th) and diamond (60th).
What is the difference between traditional and modern anniversary gifts?
Traditional gifts are the older material themes, such as paper for the 1st anniversary or tin for the 10th. Modern gifts are later alternatives, such as clocks for the 1st, diamond jewelry for the 10th and platinum for the 20th. Some years share the same gift on both lists, including silver at 25 and gold at 50.
Which anniversary is diamond?
Diamond is the traditional gift for the 60th anniversary, often called the diamond jubilee. Diamond jewelry is also the modern gift for the 10th anniversary, and diamond is the modern gift for the 30th, according to Hallmark. The jewelry anniversary list also pairs diamond with the 10th and 60th years.
What is the gemstone for each anniversary year?
On the widely used jewelry anniversary list, the first ten years are gold, garnet, pearl, topaz, sapphire, amethyst, onyx, tourmaline, lapis lazuli and diamond. Milestones include ruby for the 15th, emerald for the 20th, silver for the 25th, pearl for the 30th, ruby for the 40th, gold for the 50th and diamond for the 60th.
Is moissanite good for an anniversary ring?
Moissanite works well for anniversary rings worn every day because it rates 9.25 on the Mohs hardness scale, just below diamond at 10. It is a popular choice for eternity bands and three-stone rings marking diamond-themed years such as the 10th, 30th or 60th, especially for couples who want a large look on a set budget.
What kind of ring is given for an anniversary?
Eternity bands are the classic anniversary ring because the continuous row of stones is often read as a symbol of lasting love. Three-stone rings are another common choice, often described as representing past, present and future. Some couples instead upgrade the original engagement ring or add a stacking band.
Sources
- Hallmark: Anniversary gifts by year
- Hallmark: 1st anniversary gifts (traditional and modern)
- Hallmark: 10th anniversary gifts (traditional and modern)
- Hallmark: 14th anniversary gifts
- Hallmark: 20th anniversary gifts (traditional and modern)
- Hallmark: 30th anniversary gifts (traditional and modern)
- Hallmark: 55th anniversary gifts
- Wikipedia: Wedding anniversary (traditional US list)
- Brilliant Earth: Wedding anniversary gifts by year
- GIA 4Cs: Simulants, moissanite and lab-grown diamonds
- GIA: Diamond
- GIA: Ruby
- GIA: Sapphire